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2008年12月19日

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2008年12月17日

My irritating hair has been curling so badly and all over in the wrong places ever since I cut it short from my long permed hair a year ago.

I actually wanted to rebond it long ago, but was advised against doing so by this Punggol hairstylist few months back. She told me to just cut it short and wait for time to let it grow long again.

Went to my 'childhood' salon in Marina Square a month ago, same advice given.

However, I've been expericing BAD hair days for almost a whole SEMESTER in school! Tied up my hair everyday and it is starting to irritate me quite a little.

And so, I went against all advice and had my hair rebonded yesterday!

Great!

Now I'm smiling again... with my straight hair! :)

Wedding Dinners

I have been attending wedding dinner after dinner after dinner this season, and I am starting to realise that "almost" everyone around me are getting married!!! Sometimes it really feels great just sitting in a wedding banquet, giving your entire night's attention to the newly wed. When I was younger, attending wedding dinners with my mummy meant nothing to me. When I stepped into my early 20s, I always imagined myself as the Bride during wedding banquets. Now that it's all coming back to me and I will be the Bride myself next year end!

On the other hand, I happen to know of some people who don't like attending such events. Not because they ache for the ang pao money which they have to give, but rather the very sight of seeing others happy make them feel more miserable. It's kindda saddening to imagine people who have such feelings. I do feel sad for such people. Yet, I think it all depends themselves to re-adjust their attitudes towards marriage (or life in general) and to re-think about the factors that led them feeling this way. I would think that most of the time, he/she may not even realized that their behaviour is causing everyone to move away from them.

Friends have occasionally asked me how's life after marriage. Seriously, I have not really ponder much about it since I am still at the midst of preparing for my AD next year. Also, as much as I am anticipating for my new home, I'm a little apprehensive of my life after that. Living alone (with my hubby) means a totally new experience. To think that now in my own house, everything is provided for, everything is worked out for, everything is settled by my mummy. New home = New job scopes, new planning, new adjustments, new house rules. Often, important decisions making could not be carried out promptly as Bee is sailing frequently. It leaves me feeling uneasy to think of it sometimes. Communication is not always easy since he's often tired after his work or sailing, and most of the time when he's back home with me, he either surfing the net/playing facebook/soccer games or watching tv.

Just like today, I was in no mood to go out and meet my friends for lunch, no mood to do any work, and just simply no mood to do anything constructive for the whole day just because he ignored me last night. I lazed around at home and finding myself feeling affected by his attitude towards me. He fell asleep while watching dvd last night while I was surfing the net. I tried to be nice and sayang him while watching him sleep. Then I suddenly felt like hugging him as he was ignoring and pushing me away while he was watching his show earlier on, as I leaned towards him, I accidentally knocked into him. Although I apologised and tried to "hong" him, he raised his voice at me and turned his back towards me. For a moment, I felt really hurt. I wanted to cry and act up a big fuss to get his attention again. Then I thought he was really tired and needed the sleep, so I controlled my emotions somehow. This morning while he was preparing for work, actually I have already woke up, but somehow I refused to get up and talk to him knowing that my tone wouldn't sound so nice and also afraid that he would be frustrated and be cold to me again. So, I just closed my eyes as he kissed me goodbye before he left for work. Today, I dug out some books from my bookshelves to read and felt a little better. I wanted to chant again today, but I was just not in the mood. I really hate myself feeling this way.

Anyway, tomorrow's a brighter day! I was happy that he called to tell me that he will be on leave tomorrow and that he could come back early! Which means I can see him the moment I open my eyes tomorrow morning (provided I wake up later than 10am)! heh heh

On a lighter note, looking at my friends facebook photos just now, I realized that I have been attending so many baby showers too! Look @ all the babies photos uploaded on Facebook and you will realise how fast I'm aging by the months! ^_^

2008年12月3日

Tagged along with B to Penang for his water polo competition last week

The truth is: I'm bored like hell can!

And so I figured out the reasons -
1) The journey on the coach to Penang was a torturing 10-12hrs! The fact that I have control my bladder throughout the journey because the bus only stopped twice for toilet breaks, and even so, I don't think I ever want to use the toilets unless it is absolutely NECESSARY... (You get what I mean?)...

2) Come' on, it's Penang! Every where's dark and nothing to buy anyway, shopping satisfaction = zero. I guessed I couldn't control myself on the 3rd day and got myself a set of MAC brushes and MAC foundation @ almost similar prices as compared to SGD. But I think if I don't buy something to make me happy during the trip, B is definitely going to have a much harder time the next day. Heh heh... And so, I swopped my credit card with the bill of 400+ ringgit within 10 minutes. Well, I am certain that my dear hubby is so used to my nonsense. -_-

3) I spent a total of 3 WHOLE days, sitting only on the tip of my butt on the hard and dusty and dirty stadium chairs. Not able to lean on my back, not able to watch the water polo matches is full comfort as I did not have my spectacles with me. First day was hot like crazy, second day was raining and cold like hell with rain splashing onto you even enclosed in the seemingly sheltered swimming pool complex.

My verdict to B is: Please asked me to tag along next time if you are going countries like Hong Kong and Japan!!! M? I'll give it miss...

Getting bored again...

Playing again...

2008年11月19日

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason.

If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it.

Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

2008年10月22日

今天闷得发慌，因为今天学生考数学，所以空节时，还真的不知要做些什么好。

明天就忙了，四班的卷子批！和同事们约好明天放学后到Cafe Cartel “杀”卷子。

我一定要在星期五之前批改完！星期六我还要去云顶的！真兴奋。

－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－

我想每年的这个时候应该都是老师们兴奋的时期：

１）想到一整年就即将结束，年终考试前把所有的书本和文件夹分回给学生们，永远不必再“追债”了，心里也轻松多了。

２）想到假期即将来临，休息和旅行是我们一整年内都渴望拥有的。

３）等待明年的“命运”被公布，好像大抽奖，幸运的话能接受好班，不幸的话……

今天，校方把一份“２００９年命运单”的草稿放进Teacher's Sharing里，大家无意中看到后，议论纷纷，各个马上交上我们拖了再拖的“２００９年许愿单”，是马上哦！

有时候，人做出的一些举动，还蛮搞笑的。但，我也不例外。我是正常的。呵呵。

儿童节

前阵子和学校的同事们练了一套HipHop的舞蹈，儿童节当天献丑了。

2008年10月21日

明天明明就是星期三嘛

为何感觉这么像星期一呢？

这四天都忙着批改小六会考的考卷

好累啊！

但日子也过得蛮愉快的

充实的四天

有机会和一些新同事交流感觉还不错

最难得的是有机会和老朋友叙旧

更应该觉得开心吧

周末快来啊！我要去吉隆坡了！

目前超爱这首歌

让我慢慢地再去品尝其他十首吧！

周杰伦！

呵呵呵！

说好的幸福呢 - 周杰伦

你的回话凌乱着在这个时刻

我想起喷泉旁的白鸽甜蜜散落了

情绪莫名的拉扯我还爱你呢

而你断断续续唱着歌假装没事了

时间过了走了爱情面临选择

你冷了卷了我哭了

离开时的不快乐你用卡片手写着

有些爱只给到这真的痛了

怎么了你累了说好的幸福呢

我懂了不说了爱淡了梦远了

开心与不开心一一细数着你再不舍那些爱过的感觉都太深刻我都还记得

你不等了说好的幸福呢

我错了泪干了放手了后悔了

只是回忆的音乐盒还旋转着要怎么停呢

2008年9月24日

明星海报

2008年9月22日

休息

我需要休息！我需要休息！我需要休息！

但为何，

越休息越累，

越休息越疲惫，

越休息越没精神。

休息为何永远都不够。

琐事

今天有点神经，明明就没事，却不知为何会哭。

烦闷的星期一傍晚……

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我觉得问题是我吧!

已经不再是男生或女生的问题了。

也许教育不是我的使命。

我应该好好地考虑一下了……

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对不起，

我又开始懒惰了。

我会记得多多唱题的。

我知道错了……

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你说：“如果无法改变，就要跟着走。”

也许这样会快乐一些些。

我会的。

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